Friday, March 29, 2013

Stop Looking for Love

Recently I feel like I am having the same conversations with my single female friends and their love lives. They are all looking for love and want it bad. It’s all they can think about and sometimes obsess about it. It can be frustrating when you get to a certain age and everyone around you is finding the one.

 These days all you see on social networks are your friends getting married and having babies. Being amazingly happy in love and you just want to punch them in the face but are happy for them at the same time. I have been on both ends of the spectrum. Before I found my now fiancĂ© it would drive me crazy seeing so and so is now engaged or popping out another kid. Of course now I am the pain the ass on facebook with my sappy love photos and plans of my wedding.

To keep reading click read more Back when I was single, for a time I too would think about finding love all the time. But then I decided to give myself a break and stop looking. Maybe I would get lucky and it would just find me. So I stopped looking, I stopped worrying about it. Because when you least expect it, in a situation you never thought of, it will find you.

Right after I stopped thinking about love I met the love of my life. Never in a million years did I think my love story would start the way it did but it was the best thing to ever happen to me. It comes and finds you when you least expect it.

So my advice I keep telling my friends is to stop worrying about it and obsessing about it. Sure it is easier said than done but it does help. Try new things and don’t get stuck on the little things when you meet a guy, give him a chance. You never know how it may turn out and the man you thought would be the last man on earth you would like you could fall in love with.

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