Friday, June 8, 2012


Relationships can be tricky. Not one is perfect and if someone says theirs is they are full of shit. I have the most wonderful relationship that I can imagine but it isn’t perfect. There are things we work on every day. There are days when I want smack him upside the head and I am sure the same goes for him. But in the end we love each other and the kinks we always work out and our relationship becomes better and stronger because of that.

A big thing about making a relationship work is compromise. If you go into something thinking everything that you know is right and how it should be your relationship will fail. All relationships are different and work in different ways. Your way can’t always be how everything works. You need to talk about things with your other half and figure out how to make your differences work.

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If you don’t like something your partner is doing or how they handle a certain situation you should always tell them. For all you know they may think what they are doing or saying is no big deal and not an issue. Maybe they fold the laundry strange or they say things they think are funny and hurt your feelings. It’s different for everyone. I know in my relationship we have made all sorts of comprises. Everything from small things to major things. It’s what you do when you want something to work. You don’t give up and walk away.

Example, which is what made me think of writing this, I love getting fresh flowers. It’s just a nice simple gesture you can do for a person. My boyfriend thinks giving flowers is stupid and pointless. A commercial for edible arrangements came on and I got really excited and said one day he needs to get me one of those. He went into his thing about how he doesn’t like those things. My response was this; “just because you don’t like something doesn’t mean I don’t like it to. It is something that will make me happy and you love me and want to make me happy. This isn’t just about you and what you like, this is also about me and what I like. So think about that when it comes to things like this.”

In the end compromises can be something really big or something simple like getting someone flowers. Whatever it is you should always come to an agreement that will make both of you happy. And on that note I am still trying to convince Brian to one day surprise me with flowers. But for the record he does surprise me all the time with cute gestures.


Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Getting Off VS Being Satisfied

I love to masturbate, been doing it for a few years now. People are always surprised to hear I didn’t start playing with myself until I was about 23 and working at a sex store. I guess you could say over the past few years I have made of for lost masturbation time. I used to do it almost every day. These days it’s not as frequent since I live with my boyfriend and his penis is always around for me to play with. But I still get in plenty of me time when he isn’t around.

But lately I have been noticing something different when I am done masturbating; it’s not doing it for me anymore. But first let me be clear. I am still giving myself multiple orgasms each time and getting off. But when all is said and done I’m not satisfied like I used to be, I am left wanting more. And not just more masturbating time, all I can then think about is having a penis in me. I need the real thing.

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I want to be pounded and kissed and made to cum until I can’t move, and toys just aren’t doing that for me. Giving myself an orgasm is one thing but there is so much more to sex than just that and all those things are what I am left wanting after spending quality time with my Hitachi. Back in the day I could masturbate all I wanted and feel completely satisfied. But now for about a year now I finish and get the strongest urge for my boyfriend’s penis.

I have thought about why this must be. Pretty much my only conclusion is the fact I am in a relationship and get sex on pretty regular bases. Regular meaning however may times a day I can take his pants off and molest the crap out of him. If I had my way it would be multiple times a day but sometimes he needs a water break. 

I’ve been spoiled with around the clock sex and have gotten used to that. When I was younger and not in a relationship it was much different. I wasn’t used to having sex all the time and masturbation was my main source of satisfaction. Now it certainly can get me off but doesn’t leave me satisfied. My vagina has gotten used to the constant penis and prefers that over some plastic vibrating contraption. <

I will never stop masturbating and giving myself orgasms. Apparently times are changing over here at Lucy Vonne’s vagina and she is getting more demanding about what plays with her. We will always love our sex toys and will never give them up. But it seems the only thing now that will completely satisfy me and my vagina is a real live penis! Now I have come to realize there is a very big difference in getting off vs. being satisfied.