Monday, February 21, 2011

Squirt, There It Is!

Squirting is awesome! The day I found out that my body could do this glorious act, sex was never the same. I had always known about it and of course had seen it happen in movies. But until I had actually experienced it I didn’t think it was that big of a deal.

Squirting is the more commonly known term for female ejaculation. When a lady ejaculates a clear watery fluid comes out of her urethra. No you are not peeing, which is what a lot of people think it actually is. Typically a woman will squirt when she has g spot stimulation. This is because the g spot, when stimulated, activates the production of the ejaculate by the paraurethral glands. If you are worried about peeing you should empty your bladder beforehand.

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It does feel like you have to pee at first, but trust me it is not pee. Before I knew what was going on in my body I thought I was going to pee so I tensed up. But thanks to my sexual adventures and gaining of sexual knowledge I learned what that feeling really was. You need to relax and push past that feeling. If you have emptied your bladder beforehand then you don’t need to worry about peeing by mistake.

Getting in touch with your PC muscles plays a big part in helping one ejaculate. You can do PC muscle exercises to strengthen them. Knowing how they work with your body and when they are tight or relaxed will help you when it comes time to ejaculate. A lot of times I find myself having the feeling of wanting to squirt but if my muscles are all tense it won’t happen. I have learned to relax down there and contract my muscles letting the ejaculate flow, sometimes gush, out.

Many women think when you orgasm you should ejaculate. Therefore when nothing comes out and they orgasm they think it isn’t real. A lot of women also have trouble finding their g spot, which is turn, makes it hard for them to squirt. Every woman has the tools to learn how to squirt but it can be difficult for some to do.

Brian has become a master at making me squirt. The first time he did it he was so excited and proud of himself. I had only really squirted once before Brian, now because of Brian I am squirting all the time. He knows exactly what position to put me in where his penis hits my g spot directly. It helps that his penis curves to the left which makes it perfect for g spot. The minute I get on top of him and assume the position, it is only a matter of time before the squirting begins. We have also discovered I squirt a lot quicker if he fingers me and stimulates my g spot that way beforehand.

The amount of ejaculate that comes out is always what baffles people too. Not everyone is going to have the same amount of ejaculate come out. It is different for me every time. There have been moments where just a small amount comes out. There have also been moments where it looks like I have wet the bed. Brian has said he saw it gush out of me and in his words, “It was Rad!” That is also another reason people think it is fake. Because they see all this liquid come out of a woman and it seems like too much to be real. But trust me, it is.

I once hit Brian in the eye with squirt. Now it didn’t shoot out of me and hit him. But there was so much coming out of me and all over his stomach that when my body came down as I was bouncing on him it hit some and sent it to his eye. He thought it was pretty cool. It delights me to know how excited and happy he gets with himself when I squirt.

The feeling I have when I squirt is literally all over my body. My squirting usually happens when I orgasm. Because of all that is happening my orgasms then tend to be so intense and mind blowing. I am pretty much yelling and screaming. Sometimes I can’t even express myself with words and I just hit the bed or Brian’s leg trying to express something. For me it is much more intense than just a clitoral orgasm. When I am done I usually just collapse on top of Brian and can’t move for a minute. And my vagina stays all tingly after, it’s a wonderful thing.

So if you have experienced the magic that is squirting then congratulations. For those of you that haven’t don’t worry if you haven’t yet and you really want to. Work on it and practice and you may achieve your goal. I myself like to practice every day!


Monday, February 14, 2011

Toy Box Essentials

One of the greatest things about having my own site is all the toys I get to test out. I have probably tried a few hundred sex toys by now, and I am not slowing down anytime soon. People always wonder what my toy box looks like. Well to be honest it’s not really a box but an entire night stand next to my bed full of stuff. I don’t keep everything I try, only the ones I really like and will use on a regular basis. But if you want to have the perfect toy box there are a few staple items that you should have. Over the years I have built my perfect toy box.

I was 23 when purchased my first toy and started masturbating. People are always amazed when they hear I didn’t start until then. But let me tell you, I have totally made up for lost time. In the past 4 years I have probably masturbated more than some people do in their life time. And here are the tools of my sexual adventures.

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Clit Vibe: The very first vibrator I purchased is still the one I use all the time. It is super strong and snuggles right into my clit so wonderfully. It can get me off in about 30 seconds. It is made of platinum silicone and is rechargeable.

• Dual Vibe: I love me some dual stimulation. Mine is great. The clit piece is really strong. The pearls are on a track so they move in a continuous circle and don’t stop when my muscles contract. I can also bend the shaft slightly so it hits my g spot. I have another one too that is rechargeable and made for g spot and clit, so awesome.

• Butt Plug: I have the best silicone butt plug. It is perfect for my booty. Great to have to warm up before some anal sex action. I also have another one that can vibrate.

Lube: It’s not something I use often but is definitely good to have. I have a water base one and a silicone one. I like to use the water base on my vagina and the silicone when I’m doing anal.

• Glass: I have multiple glass toys. Not for everyone because some people don’t like hard toys. My favorites are the g spot ones because you can put a lot of pressure on the area. I also have glass anal toys. Smooth ones and ones with bulbs on it, you never know what kind of anal mood I will be in.

Vibrating Panties: So much fun to wear out in public. Mine are great because the panties are black lace and very nice. They also have a wireless remote which is key.

• Dildo: I have a few dildos; all of mine are made with platinum silicone. Some have a realistic feel to them which is always nice. One has a suction bottom and I can put it on the wall. Dildos are fun to use to DP yourself when having sex. My boyfriend loves that.

Surgical Steel: There are a few of these at my house. On the same par as glass. Love them.

Vibrating Cock Rings: I don’t use them that often but they are fun to have and use from time to time.

Vibrating Rubber Duckie: Bath time is that much more fun!

Handcuffs: Mine have rhinestones on them.

That pretty much sums up my favorites and what I always have around. I never know what mood I may be in and what kind of toy I want to play with or use with my boyfriend. It is always good to be prepared for every situation. I believe I am prepared for a plethora of sexual situations.


Friday, February 4, 2011

Candy Cane Glass Dildo

I feel bad because it has taken me so long to review this toy; I even have 2 more from this company! But it has been a busy few weeks for me and I fell behind on my toy reviews. But fear not, my vagina has stories to tell of all the toys I have tried recently. First up is this delightful glass candy cane I sweetened up my vagina with.

It was so nice of Dr. Dildo to send me a gift package right before Christmas of fun things to play with. The first one that caught my eye was the candy cane shaped one. I remember when I was working in a sex store and we got this toy in stock I was a little perplexed. At first I didn’t understand why someone would want to buy that thing. Well I proved myself wrong when it came down to toy testing time.

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I really love glass toys, but they are not for everyone. Some people can get over how hard they are and think they are uncomfortable. I am part of the population that likes a hard toy. They are really great for g spot stimulation since you can put a lot of pressure on the area. Glass is also so sleek and smooth it just glides in and out and feels great. Since glass in non-porous it is hypoallergenic and won’t harbor any bacteria. Great for someone who is sensitive to certain toy materials. You can even boil it or put it in the dishwasher to sanitize and clean. So simple.

I got a fantastic idea when it was time to test the toy. I came up with idea of trying to DP myself with the candy cane. I looked at the curve in the toy and figured it was worth the try, hey at least it would be fun trying. So I lubed up the candy cane and began my adventure. I used the long end to penetrate my vagina and was planning on the short end going in my booty. I was so close to getting it in! Unfortunately the curve in the candy cane was greater than the distance between my vagina and butt. DP fail. But I still had fun trying.

The toy still did feel great in my vagina and in my butt too. It is a great size if you are just starting out with anal play. I like to use it now to warm up my booty before anal sex. It gives really great stimulation back there. Plus you can use either end of the toy. It’s 7 inches long, which is a good size for an internal toy. I definitely have a lot of fun with this sweet treat.

Even though the holiday season is over you should keep this in mind for next year. You could even keep it out for decoration. I think I will do that next year. I would love being able to tell a person what is was when they saw it in my house.


Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Rim Around The Booty

Blowjobs are so much fun to give. I really do enjoy giving them. I am rather good too, I even teach a class. (Email me for details if you want to hire me) But there is so much more to the blowjob then just the penis. There are a lot of other great areas back there, and sometimes women or men aren’t ready for the adventure back there. But I tell you, it’s one hell of a ride.

Rimming is the act of licking, sucking and kissing the anal area. Yes I am talking about sticking your tongue in your man’s booty. You might be thinking that is something you would never do, but you should.

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I was the same way in the beginning. I did not want to go back there. My ex asked me to a few times but I refused, that ass wipe didn’t deserve it. But the more I worked in the industry and did my blogging, I got comfortable with it and thought why not, could be fun.

I had only done it on one guy before my now boyfriend, and that’s because he asked me. I figured I would do it for a few minutes and then continue with the blowjob. But I noticed how much he loved my tongue and lips on his taint and butt, it was intriguing.

Cut to present day boyfriend, Brian Street Team. He was somewhat apprehensive about me going back there at first. I didn’t do it right away; you kind of work yourself up to that. First you get the balls in your mouth, which they love. You can mix the ball sucking with some taint action, which is a good middle ground to start.

You want to treat the taint like a clit; this is if you have ever been down on a girl. (Been there, done that) Lick, kiss and suck on it. There are so many nerve endings there people don’t even think about. And not just on guys but girls too. Once you have tackled the taint you have almost won. When the guy gets relaxed enough you then move down south. I get on up in there. I push his legs open and dive in. Get his legs really wide so you can really work it down there.

I love doing this mainly because I know how much he loves it. Hearing his moans of pleasure is such a turn on for me. Gets me so freaking horny I can’t stand it. I get a lady boner every time I do it.

Now when I say I get on up in there, I really mean it. I need to come up for air every once in a while because my face is just smashed into his butt. The more he moans the deeper my tongue gets. I’m so turned on even just talking about it right now.

Now if you want to take rimming a little further you can always add a finger up the butt. Make sure you let him know before you put it in there. Also make sure you have some lubrication going on to help it slide in. This is so you can massage the prostate, which is a very pleasurable spot on a guy.

I think the reason I love rimming is because it gives me more of a variety with going down on him. Plus I love knowing how much pleasure it gives him. So ladies don’t be afraid of going into your man’s booty for a good time. I love it and get off on it and so should you. And remember, rimming isn’t only just for guys…..