Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Screw Rules

I don’t like people telling me what I can and cannot do. One of the biggest things I have issues with is these ladies and their “rules” on dating. Specific guidelines that one must follow if they want to meet the right man and have him call you back for another date. I’m sorry this isn’t grade school and no one tells me how to handle my sex life but me. I’m going to do what feels right for me and so should you. I’m going to find the right man for me by acting like who I am.

The one that bothers me the most is how ladies feel you should wait so many dates to bust out the sex talk and moves. Never have sex on the first date, don’t talk about sex too much, he won’t respect you have sex too soon, etc. First of all sex is my job, it’s a big part of my life and who I am. I will not apologize for that. One of the first questions you get asked is what you do for a living. And when I ramble off all my sex related jobs, which sparks a sex conversation.

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I’m very open about sex and sometimes people aren’t ready for that or know what to say. But I won’t censor who I am or what I think just because “the rules” say I should act like a lady. I am always a lady and most of the time this lady has a dirty mind, doesn’t make me any less of one as far as I’m concerned. Talking about it also helps clear up a lot of misconceptions that they might have about me because I work in the sex industry.

I have a very high sex drive I want it all the time. That’s not to say I go out and look for men to sleep with every night. Sex on the first date is a big no-no according to the “the rules.” He won’t respect you, he will only think of you as sex, blah blah blah. Sure sometimes that may happen but not always. If I want to have sex on a date I’m going to do it. To me it’s not about how many dates into it you are it’s about our sexual chemistry. And if we don’t have it then it’s not going to work for me. I have been in situations where from the moment we met it was instant fire and the evening ended in sex. Do I regret it; absolutely not it’s what I wanted to do. Sometimes dates and dates go by and no action. If the situation feels right to me then I’m going with it.

The other speculation is you can’t have a lasting real relationship when you sleep with someone so quick. My boyfriend, who is the love of my life, and I were making out within 20 minutes of meeting each other. Granted we had technically known each other already for about 8 months, but only by phone. (I had interviewed him for my site and we stayed in touch) Until that moment our relationship was based on dirty photos and sexting with conversations here and there. The night I met him I totally would have banged the hell out of him, but he had to work the next day. The sexual chemistry was insane between the two of us; I am not one to deny insane sexual chemistry. But it didn’t happen that night, it did happen two days after that. What happened between us turned into a loving serious relationship, with a whole lot of sex.

Now I’m not telling you to always have sex on the first date and only talk about sex to them. It’s more about what is right for you and how you want to live your life. Living by some fucked up “rules” that someone feels us women should all act is preposterous. I’m going to do what I want, what I feel is right for me and my body. The only person who can determine that is me. So you should determine what is right for you and makes you happy.


Friday, December 3, 2010

Fuck Me Please

I am a lady; well at least I like to think so. I have very good manners, I always say please and thank you, dress professional and respect my elders. But I am also a lady who likes sex, a lot of sex. Sometimes I want the lady like love making. Soft, slow and passionate with my boyfriend and I being all gentle like. Other times, while still being a lady, I want some good old fashioned sex. I believe most other women are like this and don’t always want to bang in the same fashion every day. And like most other women, even being the lady that I am, sometimes I just want to get fucked.

A big misconception out there is all women want to have sex the same way. Whether or not how valid this still is, at one time it was very much so. It was thought that all women wanted tender love making, and a man should never get rough and always say sweet nothings in her ears. Sure sometimes that can be great, especially with someone that you love, but not all the time. I believe there are a few versions of the penis to vagina action, or penis to butt, whatever your fancy.

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As I said before, sometimes I just want to get fucked. It’s not even always a want, I need it. Like my body craves it. This is not just me being a dirty pervert, lots of my girlfriends have agreed with me. You must be thinking, what do I justify as getting fucked? Now I don’t want to scare any of you, but when I get fucked I like it rough. I mean, isn’t getting rough the whole point of getting fucked? At least in my mind it is.

It’s hard, fast (the humping not the time), deep, raw and dirty. I come usually come out of this with some bruises or marks. That’s what happens when you enjoy biting, choking and/or slapping across the face or on the ass. Men sometimes might get worried they may hurt you. There is of course a chance for that if you don’t know each other’s thresholds. Still to this day my boyfriend is worried he may hurt me but he knows by now what I can handle. I always suggest to people starting out with a gentle slap. The mood won’t get ruined by someone saying harder, but it might change a little with too much pain.

I am all excited right now just thinking about what happens. You are practically ripping each other’s clothes off. You feel all hot and sweaty. And then the fucking happens, and it’s so glorious! I am left not being able to move for a few minutes because my orgasms are so intense and full body. I am waiting for the day when my neighbors come over and wonder what all the racket is about because the fucking can get rather noisy. Especially the other night in the kitchen…..well that’s a whole other story.

Again, I know I am not alone in this thinking. I have talked out it before with a lot of my friends. Some women liked to get fucked, hard. Doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you or make you any less of a lady. I am sure even the Queen of England liked to get fucked back in the day. You never know, she still might be down.