Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Ask Lucy Vonne; Butt Sex, Tranny Porn and How Often to Masturbate

I always welcome people emailing me and asking me advice and questions about sex. Now with this new website Formspring a lot of people have been using that as a means to ask me all sorts of questions, and I mean all sorts. Not all are advice, some are personal questions, some are comments and of course some are random hate mail (those just make me laugh). From time to time I'm going to post some of the more advice related questions from there so everyone can learn a thing or two. Remember you can always email me at Lucyvonne11@gmail.com with any questions or comments you may have.

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Dear Lucy Vonne, how does one go about trying anal? is it worth it or should i just stick with regular?

Well it is definitely not for everyone, there was a point in time where I never thought I would do it. For me I am learning to get better at it. I have only done it like 3 times. I want to get better because I know my boyfriend likes when we do it. As of now I like it, it's nothing out of this world for me but I do enjoy it. If it is something you really want to try go for it. But please use lube, always use lube! The anus does not naturally lubricate itself like the vagina does so it needs some help. Also don't use the numbing creams because while you may think it's nice to numb it, feeling pain lets you know when you should stop something. You are much more likely to hurt yourself when using those. Yes it may hurt at first but that does go away, and if doesn't you know to stop. Plus if you are numb you won't get any pleasure out of it and that's the whole point. If you are imperative on using something like that, use a relaxing anal lube. It helps keep the muscles from tensing up so things can go in easier.

Often people like to use butt plugs beforehand to open themselves up. Then you can get comfortable with something just being there before dealing with a penis going in and out. Just remember it's ok to go slow, it's better to go slow. Then when you get used to having something in there you can go for it. At first it will feel strange and may hurt a little, but that feeling will pass. Good luck!

Dear Lucy Vonne, Does it matter what kind of porn someone watches? My boyfriend watches straight m-f porn but I've also seen some she-male and "18"yr old videos mixed in.

Sometimes people watch some kinds of porn because they are just curious about it. Doesn't mean they will always act on it or want to try it. But most of the time people do watch what turns them on. I know I've watched some stuff just to see what it's about but it's not somethings I'm in to. However if it is something he is watching on a regular basis it's probably something he gets turned on by. He might not want to act on it but you will never know unless you talk to him about it. If you are really worried I would suggest talking to him about it.

Dear Lucy Vonne, how many times a day is it ok to masturbate? I feel like my vibrator is always on!

As much as you want! Sometimes I masturbate on and off all day long, at least ten times sometimes. As long as you aren't hurting yourself I say keep going at it. The only bad thing is you might go through a lot of batteries.

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